Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by
ourselves alone—we find it in another. . .the meaning of our life is a secret
that has to be revealed to us in love, by the one we love. . . (s)he who loves
is more alive and more real than when (s)he did not love.
Thomas Merton
What has your partner taught you about the meaning of
life?
What have you taught your partner?
In what ways has
loving your partner helped you to be more alive?
Have you thanked your partner for what they have given you? For what they specifically have given you?
Perhaps this could be woven into your vows or in a letter you give your partner the morning of your wedding.